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發(fā)表時間:2020-11-09ThingsIwishI’dknownwhenIwasyounger。
ThingsIwishI’dknownwhenIwasyounger
Mostpeoplelearnovertime,butoftenlearningcomestoolatetobefullyuseful.TherearecertainlymanythingsthatnowIknowwouldhavebeenextremelyusefultomeearlierinmylife;thingsthatcouldhavesavedmefrommanyofthemistakesandhurtsIsufferedovertheyears—andmostofthosethatIbroughtuponotherstoo.
Idon’tbelievetheromanticideathatmylifehasbeensomehowricherormoreinterestingbecauseofallthetimesImademistakes;northeideathatmistakeswere“put”theretohelpmelearn.Imademistakesmyselfthroughignorance,fear,andafoolishwishtohaveeveryonelikeme,andlifeandworkwouldhavebeenlessstressfulandmoreenjoyable(andcertainlymoresuccessful)withoutthem.SoherearesomeofthethingsIwishIhadlearnedlongago.IhopetheymayhelpafewofyouavoidthemistakesthatImadebackthen.
1.Mostofitdoesn’tmatter.SomuchofwhatIgotexcitedabout,anxiousabout,orwastedmytimeandenergyon,turnedoutnottobeimportant.Thereareonlyafewthingsthattrulymattertohaveahappylife.IwishIhadknowntoconcentrateonthoseandignoretherest.
2.Thegreatestsourceofsadnessandhatred(hating)inthisworldisholdingontopasthurts.Lookatalltheterroristsandwarlikegroups!Theykeepsomeeventlonggoneinmind,orbasetheirgoodreasonsforkillingonsomesupposedhistoricalownershipofabitofland,orthewrongdonehundredsofyearsago.
3.Waitingtodosomethinguntilyoucanbesureofdoingitexactlyrightmeanswaitingforever.Oneofthegreatestadvantagesanyonecanhaveisthewillingnesstomakeafoolofthemselvespubliclyandoften.There’snobetterwaytolearnanddevelop.DareIsay,it’sfuntoo.
4.Followingthelatestfashion,inworkorinlife,isspiritualandmentalsuicide.Youcancopythemostpopularideaofthemoment;oryoucanbeauniqueindividual.Thechoiceisyours.Religionisn’ttheopiateofthemasses,fashionis.
5.Thequickestandsimplestwaytodestroyanyrelationshipistolistentogossip.Theworstwaytospendyourtimeisspreadingmore.Peoplewhospreadgossiparethedisease-carriersofourday.Cockroachesareclean,kindlycreaturesincomparison.
6.Everywinneriscertaintobealoserinduecourse.It’sgreattofeellikeawinner,butdon’timagineyoucanstaythereforever.Theworstisbeingdeterminedtodoso,byanymeansavailable.
7.Everythingtakestwiceaslongasyouplanforandproducesresultsabouthalfasgoodasyouhoped.There’snoreasontobedepressedaboutthis.Justbeawareofitandmoveon.
8.Howeverhardyoutry,youcan’tavoidbeingyourself.Whoelsecouldyoube?Youcanactandpretend,butthepersonactingandpretendingisstillyou.Andifyouwon’tacceptyourself—anddothebestyoucanwithwhatyouhave—whothenhasanydutytoacceptyou?
9.Theloudestnoiseintheworldisthesoundofpeoplecomplaining.Don’taddtoit.
Informationabouttheauthor:
AdrianSavageisawriter,anEnglishman,andaretiredbusinessmanager,whonowlivesinTucson,Arizona.YoucanreadhisotherarticlesatSlowLeadership(//www.slowleadership.org/blog/),thesiteforeveryonewhowantstobuildacivilizedplacetoworkandbringbackthetaste,enthusiasmandsatisfactiontoleadershipandlife.
Hisfirstbook,ASparkfromHeaven?ThePlaceofPotentialinOrganizationalandIndividualDevelopment,waspublishedin2002.
RecentarticlesonsimilartopicsincludeChickens,eggs,andhappinessandWhyperfectionisn’taviablegoal.Hislatestbook,SlowLeadership:CivilizingtheOrganization,isnowavailableatallgoodbookstores.
Wordsandexpressions:
1.holdonto:keepsthforlongerthanusualtime抓住不放
2.suicide:theactofkillingoneself自殺
3.auniqueindividual:apersonwhoisoriginalanddifferentfromothers獨一無二的人
4.opiate:鴉片
5.cockroaches:蟑螂
6.induecourse:attherighttimeandnotbefore在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r候,到一定時候
7.depressed:verysadandwithouthope沮喪的
8.aware:knowingandrealizingsth明白的,知道的(工作計劃之家 wwW.fZ76.cOM)
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